{"id":4460,"date":"2023-10-18T06:07:13","date_gmt":"2023-10-18T06:07:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daochuaconen.com\/?p=4460"},"modified":"2025-04-03T02:21:08","modified_gmt":"2025-04-03T02:21:08","slug":"con-nguoi-va-tinh-yeu-dich-thuc-agape","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daochuaconen.com\/index.php\/2023\/10\/18\/con-nguoi-va-tinh-yeu-dich-thuc-agape\/","title":{"rendered":"18. Con Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau \u0110\u00edch Th\u1ef1c AGAP\u00c9"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4460\" class=\"elementor elementor-4460\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6264e273 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6264e273\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6317829b\" data-id=\"6317829b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-384fe665 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"384fe665\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.17.0 - 25-10-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>L\u00e2u nay, ta v\u1eabn hay l\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi ta. C\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft sau \u0111\u00e2y, tuy kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng cho ta th\u1ea5y c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1eefng d\u1ecb bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 li\u1ec7u m\u1eb7c kh\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh kinh.<\/p>\n<p>Trong ph\u00fac \u00e2m th\u00e1nh M\u00e1tth\u00eau, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ph\u00e1n: \u201cV\u1eady n\u1ebfu anh em l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u1ee7a t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng chi Cha anh em, \u0110\u1ea5ng ng\u1ef1 tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ban nh\u1eefng c\u1ee7a t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb xin Ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d (Mt 7, 11). Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu cho ta th\u1ea5y, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ecf l\u1ed9 ra v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f3m t\u1eaft:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 -C\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a ta, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u00fd ch\u00ed tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 -T\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 hay bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 -T\u1ea1o v\u1eadt b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 -H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><strong>1)<\/strong> <strong>T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU TH\u01af\u01a0NG C\u1ee6A CON NG\u01af\u1edcI:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>C\u1ea3m x\u00fac sinh h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ecb \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u1edf tr\u00e1i tim? Theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 oxytocin, do b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9 oxytocin trong m\u00e1u quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ta th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u00e1i l\u1ef1c nam n\u1eef, t\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1eed, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n &#8230; Ch\u00ednh oxytocin l\u00e0m ta rung c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec7t d\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap ta gi\u1ea3m \u0111au ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m t\u0103ng kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m. Oxytocin t\u1ea1o ni\u1ec1m tin t\u01b0\u1edfng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, l\u00e0m t\u0103ng tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd, gi\u1ea3m stress.<\/p>\n<p>Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Gabija Toleikyte, nh\u00e0 th\u1ea7n kinh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Shelfield Hallam (Anh) n\u00f3i: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb n\u01a1i s\u00e2u k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c. B\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng th\u00f4ng tin nhi\u1ec1u g\u1ea5p c\u1ea3 ch\u1ee5c l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n n\u00e3o b\u1ed9\u2026 B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1eadt l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3\u201d. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, th\u1ea7n b\u00ed. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng sinh h\u00f3a v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ch\u00ednh t\u1ea1o h\u00f3a gi\u1ea5u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ngay trong ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Tuy m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7: ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 hay bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>V\u00ec t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c sinh h\u1ecdc, cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00f9y sinh h\u00f3a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, l\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0y khi th\u1ebf kh\u00e1c, m\u1ea1nh y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 do oxytocin ti\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Ta th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00ean cao hay xu\u1ed1ng th\u1ea5p t\u00f9y h\u1ee9ng, t\u00f9y \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n sinh l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef ta hay n\u00f3i: \u201cY\u00eau nhau l\u1eafm, c\u1eafn nhau \u0111au\u201d. \u0110am m\u00ea c\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u1ed3ng ch\u00e1y, c\u00f3 l\u00fac l\u1ee5i t\u00e0n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng. Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ta k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e2u h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u1ebd l\u00e2u m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 40% c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb T\u00e2y Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf v\u1edbi nhau sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian chung s\u1ed1ng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau h\u1ecd c\u0169ng y\u00eau nhau th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec r\u1ea5t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 hay thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>T\u1ea1o v\u1eadt th\u00ec b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u201cNh\u00e2n v\u00f4 th\u1eadp to\u00e0n\u201d. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u0169ng b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng, k\u1ebb l\u1ea1i gh\u00e9t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u00ea nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed5, k\u1ebb l\u1ea1i gh\u00e9t cay gh\u00e9t \u0111\u1eafng. \u201cTh\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau c\u1ee7 \u1ea5u c\u0169ng tr\u00f2n, gh\u00e9t nhau qu\u1ea3 b\u1ed3 h\u00f2n c\u0169ng m\u00e9o\u201d l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Y\u00eau gh\u00e9t th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 quan, t\u00f9y l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00fd do n\u00e0o m\u00e0 y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c gh\u00e9t h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh, ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i chung chung: do v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9, quan ni\u1ec7m, l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m, th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng v.v\u2026 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t. T\u1ea1i sao \u0111ang y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh gh\u00e9t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u1eady. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 qua gi\u00e1c quan v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 \u00f3c. Gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a ta b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n t\u1ee9 b\u1ec1. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft qua c\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng. Bi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec c\u00f2n t\u00f9y v\u00e0o tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ebf. Ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh, nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, c\u00e1i ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau mu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 th\u01a1, nh\u1ea1c s\u0129, khoa h\u1ecdc gia, hay l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o n\u00f3i y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ee7 quan. N\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n chung m\u00e0 \u0111a s\u1ed1, trong ch\u00fang ta, ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1ec3 ta y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c gh\u00e9t, \u0111\u1ec3 ta b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 kh\u00e1 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh, c\u00e1i \u201ch\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh\u201d c\u1ee7a \u201cch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng\u201d m\u00e0 ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2)<\/strong> <strong>T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU THI\u00caN CH\u00daA: AGAP<\/strong><strong>\u00c9<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d (1 Ga 4, 16) v\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n. Ng\u00e0i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Th\u00e1nh Gioan kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do m\u1ea1c kh\u1ea3i. Ta \u0111\u1eebng hi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau theo ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u1edf tr\u00ean, v\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p, d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7m l\u1eabn. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd trong t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd. \u00dd ch\u00ed th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, t\u00ednh quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Trong th\u01a1 th\u1ee9 2 g\u1edfi Tim\u00f4th\u00ea, th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 vi\u1ebft: \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ban cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7n kh\u00ed khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7\u201d (2 Tim 7).<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1c quan m\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t tinh th\u1ea7n, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00e1nh Gioan n\u00f3i: \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n kh\u00ed\u201d (Ga 4, 24). Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan v\u00e0 x\u00fac c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Trong s\u00e1ch Xu\u1ea5t H\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 34 c\u00e2u 6-7, Ch\u00faa ph\u00e1n: \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu v\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi, hay n\u00e9n gi\u1eadn, gi\u00e0u nh\u00e2n ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edn,<strong><sub>\u00a0 <\/sub><\/strong>gi\u1eef l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi mu\u00f4n ng\u00e0n th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, t\u1ed9i \u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i\u201d (Xh 34, 6-7).<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng ph\u00e1n qua mi\u1ec7ng ti\u00ean tri Gi\u00ear\u00eamia: \u201cTa \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh mu\u00f4n thu\u1edf\u201d (Gr 31, 1).<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, kh\u00f4ng hay thay \u0111\u1ed5i, s\u00e1ng n\u1eafng chi\u1ec1u m\u01b0a: \u201cAnh em ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a anh em, th\u1eadt l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trung th\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u00f4n ng\u00e0n th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn gi\u1eef giao \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai y\u00eau m\u1ebfn Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 gi\u1eef c\u00e1c m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d (\u0110nl 7, 9).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Th\u00e1nh Gioan n\u00f3i: \u201cAi kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d (1 Ga 4, 8). Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00eau th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u00e0 \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 chi m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa ph\u1ea3i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m?\u201d (Tv 8).<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u1ea1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eady? Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ta qua ti\u00ean tri Isaia: \u201cV\u00ec ng\u01b0\u01a1i c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ta, c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 Ta y\u00eau m\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u01a1i\u201d (Is 43, 4).<\/p>\n<p>Ta th\u00ec c\u00f3 x\u00e1c th\u1ec3, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa thu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1ea7n linh, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea7n. V\u1eady Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 y\u00eau nh\u01b0 ta y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh<\/strong>:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec l\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u201cqu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c\u201dm\u00e0 ta v\u1eabn g\u1ecdi t\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u201ceros\u201d. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu: \u201cV\u1ed1n d\u0129 l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u2026 m\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y th\u00e2n n\u00f4 l\u1ec7, tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng ph\u00e0m nh\u00e2n, s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf\u201d (Phil. 2, 6-8). Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea nh\u01b0 ta.<\/p>\n<p>Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u00f3a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, qua nh\u1eefng v\u00ed von nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o l\u1ea1i qu\u00ean con \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea1n l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi con m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang? Cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa th\u00ec ph\u1ea7n Ta, Ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 qu\u00ean ng\u01b0\u01a1i. N\u00e0y Ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eafc ng\u01b0\u01a1i tr\u00ean b\u00e0n tay ta\u201d (Is\u00a0 49, 14-15).<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1eed nh\u01b0 \u201cG\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u1ea5p \u1ee7 con d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1nh\u201d (Lc 13, 34), m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u00e0 v\u00f4 v\u1ecb l\u1ee3i, d\u00e1m hy sinh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e0n con. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e1m hy sinh c\u1ea3 m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau (Ga 15, 13).<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00faa ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng th\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u00ed von \u0111\u1ec3 ta m\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u1eadt, v\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi gi\u00e1c quan v\u00e0 n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ta b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e3nh h\u1ed9i tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u00e1i ch\u00e2n l\u00fd \u1ea5y. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4><strong>K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 t\u00f3m t\u1eaft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c \u201cagap\u00e9\u201d b\u1eb1ng b\u00e0i ca nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>\u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn (t\u00ecnh y\u00eau agap\u00e9) th\u00ec nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c, hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu, kh\u00f4ng ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng v\u00eanh vang, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i h\u1eadn th\u00f9,\u00a0kh\u00f4ng m\u1eebng khi th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gian \u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng vui khi th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt.\u00a0\u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn tha th\u1ee9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, hy v\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3\u201d (1 Cor 13, 4-7).<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2u c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u1ea3 thi, v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng n\u00f3i th\u00eam: \u201c<em>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y l\u1edd m\u1edd nh\u01b0 trong m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng, mai sau s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb7t gi\u00e1p m\u1eb7t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u1ea7n c\u00f3 h\u1ea1n, mai sau t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft\u201d (1 Cor 13, 12).<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00e2u nay, ta v\u1eabn hay l\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi ta. C\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. 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